i'm learning

Below are three comments that people have said around me, but not to me directly. They were for me though. I know because I can't shake them.

1) The Halls in reference to what an African told them while they spent the summer in Africa: "We don't need Americans to send money. We need people to come and die here."

2) Keith: "You cannot view any other believer as your enemy or as a potential enemy. Regardless of how the church has hurt you in the past, look beyond that person to the source of evil and direct your righteous indignation there. But do not allow other believers to become enemies."

3) Anna & Laura: " 'It does not matter what you do for your cv because God has a plan and if you follow him, his plan can be completed in you.' At first I was mad because I was ashamed that I had not thought of that."